Drawing the Line Between Risqué and Wrong

I recently found myself contemplating a controversial issue that I had never thought about before. What is considered an appropriate situation/subject to take a photo of? This question seems to have a simple answer, but that's not the case. During my recent travels to Peru, our group was invited to visit a religious center, where indigenous Peruvian natives could sleep and eat for a small compensation. Now these people are not just randomly plucked off of the streets. They come from the Amazonian jungle, living in tribal families with no contact to outside of the jungle, enjoying their minimalistic life. These people have never seen or used a raised flame to cook on (stove.) Nor do they have the concept of shutting water off with a valve, all they  know is that the river runs and it does not stop. 

We were greeted with beautiful song and dance, influenced by many different regions of Amazonian Peru. All of these songs had a strong influence from G-d or "El Dios." In one instance, I looked over and saw a young daughter sitting on her mothers lap, with her seven brothers sitting next to them. The young girl brought her hands up to her face, palms placed together in the traditional prayer position. To me or you, this may seem like an every day action in a place of worship, but to these deep-rooted people, it meant much much more. Do I take a picture of her praying? Would it be a sign of intrusion and disrespect? 

Another moment I had hesitation to capture was when a woman brought her child up to her chest and started to breastfeed in the middle of the wonderful ceremony. It is not something you instinctively think of taking a picture of, but the fact that it is so unnatural to breastfeed in public, I couldn't resist. This action was nothing more than a part of daily life for these gracious people, where in America, this harmless action could land you in jail for indecent exposure. 

What instances have you faced where you didn't know where to draw the line between risqué and wrong? 

Please leave a comment below describing a similar situation or a reaction to this one. 

The Time To Start Is Now

I have contemplated about what I should write about for quite some time now. I am still not quite sure where this keyboard will take me, but what I do know is that now is the time to start. Not tomorrow, not in an hour, but NOW.

Here is how I came to this point - I was sitting on the balcony at my local Chabad Synagog one high holiday this past year. I had not gone to a gathering like this for a very long time, and I started to realize what I was missing while I was gone. I suddenly felt that my intentions of change and traveling in the right direction were being re-routed into a clear path, drawn out right in front of me! The Rabbi started to talk about how time is not something we have an abundance of, time is an entity that needs to be appreciated and used in the wisest ways. What ever "wise" means to you, weather its taking your family out to breakfast, or something as simple as unloading the dishwasher when you have a free minute or two. What am I saying all of this for?

This past month, I met a lot of inspirational people, and interesting personalities. One couple I met truly took my heart at their elegant, yet simple wedding: a tastefully cooked meal (by the brides father!), a natural Huppah hand made by the bride and groom, but most importantly, a message that went in one ear, and stayed in my head, and will continue to flourish in my brain forever. Although already married, they decided to take a step back to their roots, and have an orthodox wedding as their relatives did in the past, but with a sense of gratefulness towards not being afraid of a Pogrom happening in the middle of the service, or police entering the house and taking the father for impersonating a non-jew just to protect his family. They stomped their feet down and realized that the time is NOW to never forget their past and act on keeping the traditions alive. 

Mazeltov Marianna and Dmitry